The Church of Personal Financism
I got started on a bit of a Personal Finance kick in August of 2007 when I realized for the first time that I was living beyond my means. Like most people who experience a shock to their systems, I overcompensated and went on an all-out purge of unnecessary spending, studied up on investing as if I had a final on it the next day, and spouted off about my epiphany on my blog. Without even noticing, I became one of my Most Hated Things: an evangelist.
I’ve mellowed out since then and have found a satisfying balance between spending and not spending, so I can once again proudly call myself a staunch Moderate, but I do still read two or three personal finance blogs just for the occassional moments of insight.
Thing is, though, personal finance bloggers are really starting to annoy me. Let me show you why.
Around this time last year, a certain blogger made a purchase that he found himself regretting terribly. Consumed by guilt, he chastised himself for his frivolity and thought about what he could have done with the money that he no longer could. He could have paid down debt! He could have invested it! He could have put it towards his next car purchase! But instead, he squandered it on a material possession. Fortunately, he shared this experience with the world, so that his readers could learn from his mistake.
The mistake? He spent $50 on a copy of Mario Kart Wii.
Are you. Fucking. Kidding me?
Simple Dollar Trent is a pretty smart guy who has a lot of insights to offer when it comes to frugality and investing. Okay, so pretty much everything he says is lifted directly from whatever book he’s read that week anyway, but that doesn’t make his blog any less useful.
But turning on the Guilt Switch for a small indulgence like a Wii game?
There’s another group of people who beat themselves half to death whenever they make the slightest deviation from their heavily polarized lifestyles: Clergy. The more I read blogs like Trent’s, the more they sound like the endless rants about how one should behave that come from the world’s religious epicenters. Adept though he is at relaying helpful financial advice, it’s hard to ignore the fact that he is, ultimately, just another midwestern psycho-conservative.
It’s fine to concentrate on living within your means and saving for the future. Better than fine. It’s crucial. But to take it to such an extreme that you forget how to enjoy the occasional splurge will only turn you into a preacher.




